In recent months the buzz has been about the movie "Fireproof". I expect it is a great movie, we have yet to see it. I flipped through the book that is related to the it- the Love Dare in a bookstore while on vacation, but have yet to read it. Even just in the flipping of pages I began to understand the gist of paying attention to the spouse, being deliberate in our words and deeds and attitude, not asuming that the message of love was being understood without action.
This morning I thought about how often there are things we think about our husband or children that we don't take time to write down. How often do I or you speak of our love and delight as compared to the frustrations and disappointments? To that end I have begun a "what I love about my husband list"
Already it has been a blessing to me, to reflect upon the man who I have shared life with and continue to delight in doing say daily for the rest of our lives. Perhaps you will consider the loves of your life and the delight they are to you, and express it to them as well.
Things I love about my husband
- he is funny
- he loves God
- he is a hard worker
- he has a tender heart
- he is hairy, furry, fuzzy and prickly
- he likes his bedwarmer even when she isnt warm
- he loves his woobies, year after year
- he enjoys a good cup of coffee
- he reads the daily paper
- he can fix almost anything
- he has become more than I could ever imagined he'd be 27 years ago
- he is committed to us
- he is planning our park bench to sit on when we get old
- he loves nature
- he feeds the birds
- he is a manly, man and shoots squirrels
- he buids with his hands
- he is real people
- he is computer smart
- he surprises me with compassion towards his wayward when I am not compassionate
- he pokes his prickly one
- he enjoys soaking in the tub
- he remembers lessons of life and is changed by them
- he appreciates little things
- he is willing to serve his country
- he is generous with his time, talents and blessings
- he likes to mow the lawn and cut down trees
- he has rough hands, workers hands though he has a desk job these days
- he has great lips
- he prays with me
- he prays for his kids
- he worries when any of us are sick or ill
- he snuggles well
- he wears jeans and flannel shirts
- he likes the muppets
- he indulges his kids, even though he was not indulged as a child
- he is stubborn
- he is silly
- he is a dad
- he is mine!
- he is responsible
- he is respected by his coworkers
- he is loyal
- he has brown eyes
- he still has his teddybear from childhood
- he takes yearly pictures with each child on their birthday
- he likes to camp
- he builds campfires
- he smokes turkey in the woods, giving us an new thanksgivign tradition
- he leaves the woods in compassion towards a sick wife
- he keeps his work phone in the bathroom, not our bedroom
- he calls me before heading home, in case I need anything
- he loves me
- we have shared 27 + years together as friends, we share life history
- he has blessed me with world travel
- he has cared for me well
- he has always provided for my needs
- he helps me with my gardening
- he lets me be hyper and loves me when I am worn out
- he has weathered the "money pit" storm waves
- he drives a diesel truck
- he wears work boots
- he rides a motorcycle
- he loves my family
- he has a twin brother
wow those are really good! except for 29 that's really gross
ReplyDeleteVery well said!! The smiles were getting bigger and bigger as I read through the list. Now I should go get my own list written. Thanks for the inspiration!
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ReplyDeleteumm...29 is really gross!! eeewwwww!!!
but 65...i've met him. he's cute!
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